Polymath

     Worry kills us quite everyday. Death finishes our flesh, but worry kills us from within while we’re in the flesh.  If you’re worried about your career, exam, or project, then you’ve academic worries.      If you’re worried about your relationships, then you’ve relation worried.      Worry doesn’t solve the problem. You’ve to solve the problem, so why do you worry? You must be thinking that it’s not easy or it’s not that simple. Almost 90% worries come from us. I don’t mean to insult your emotions, but that’s a fact. You can overcome your worries by doing one step at a time. And you’ll be less worried. It’s not hard at all. Just take any step toward your problem.      Worries stop your mind and brain. It shows us like - there’s nothing you can do but worry. Worries will solve the problem. All doors are closed.     If you think of problem as a challenge, your mindset will change. If you think about yo...

     Mostly our sorrows come from expectations; especially from others. Where there’s relation, expectations are there. Unexpected expectations may harm you very badly.      We expect something from someone unknowingly that ‘someone’ is unaware of.      There’s nothing wrong expecting something from someone. You should tell ‘someone’ your expectations.      In addition to that, there’s nothing wrong expecting something from yourself. If you strive, you dive.              Expectations come from others may be disappointing.      Expectations are the root of many sorrows. Surprise is the other side of life.     If expected thing happens, we'll not wonder. We know in our heart somewhere that expectations are side of surprise; either ecstasy or sorrow.    Many of us live life of sorrows which we shouldn’t have lived. We never deserved this kind of l...

       To be visible with people, we often behave gently first, things get changed. Some stay, some go, some do complicate,  but those stay who is our best.        Some bonds are different than blood those we call our friends. Even from poet to philosopher, everyone has expressed the importance of friendship. Films, television shows, books included this subject many times, and it’s not new to us.        There’s saying – “we can’t choose our relatives, but friends”. They accompany us in our up and downs just like our relatives. We can share any problem with them which we can’t even share with our relatives.        They don’t carry our name but life. Don’t share our blood but bond. They even give us same irritation like our relatives sometimes (being funny). We feel always different with them. Life becomes less complicated or more complicated sometimes.        To ‘subscribe’ t...

       In our daily life, to be a perfect person or personality, we often struggle to be better. Many times we can't tell ourselves that what we lack that we need to achieve to be better and be still in the race. We get depressed that we have talent and will power, but still not making progress or getting any success.        To improve our personality, we need to think that we can, how much is the another question, certainly we can. “In order to succeed, we must believe that we can.” -Michael Korda

     Many times you know your goals, steps, ways to how to get there, but get perplexed or feels like is there anything I was supposed to do differently? To get rid of that problem you can interview; of yourself. Surprised?       Take pencil and paper and write down the questions that you need answered. Write what you think of all of it. Whatever comes in your mind while writing, write it down. You’ll feel relaxed. Don’t edit or criticize or correct.      Write like you’re being interviewing and it’s like an informal interview, so write and write. It’ll feel divine and in addition to that you’ll get answers that will ease your life.      This solution may look cheesyat first, but if you don’t want to be exhausted, then this is a convenient way to be relaxed. Whenever I get confused, I write. I meditate sometimes.      There’s a saying – “it’s all in the mind". You’ve all answers of all questions you poss...

     Many times, something happens for a reason or without a reason. Things go south on you, but it leaves impact on you. Time passes for everyone but not for you; a wound which never healed. What’s that? Forgive. Either you don’t forgive someone or yourself. You just need to forgive not because that person deserves to be forgiven, but you deserve a peace. You feel free when you heal, and you heal when you forgive.       You may think that it doesn’t matter if you forgive or not, but I’m here to tell you – it does. There’s a saying – “Let’s not dwell on the past.” It has a deep meaning. It was a past’s job to be happened, it is future’s job that is going to happen, but it’s present’s job that make it happen; now.      You might have made a lot of serious mistakes in past, but what can you do for it? It was in the past and don’t ruin the present for it. You either waste your present repairing it or learn from it and not make the same mistak...

     Robert was a very nice guy. He completed his education in computer engineering and ranked 1st in everything. From many days, he was thinking about a project; dream project that will connect the world and make it great place. He planned everything, but … didn’t take any step and then Mark Zuckerberg did it.               We’d never know that what he could do? Or what was his idea? He could change the world but he didn’t hear about art of start and my blog (by the way, this story is fictional)      What do you think of this story? He held himself back just because he didn’t know about art of start. In life, many times you’ve a situation and you don’t know what to do? You hold yourself back and don’t do what you were supposed to do?      Take a first step. You might have started something and left due to lack of motivation. If you think about one step at a time, you’ll have better results. I think takin...