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Don't you think expectations are the root of sorrows?

     Mostly our sorrows come from expectations; especially from others. Where there’s relation, expectations are there. Unexpected expectations may harm you very badly.

     We expect something from someone unknowingly that ‘someone’ is unaware of.

     There’s nothing wrong expecting something from someone. You should tell ‘someone’ your expectations.

     In addition to that, there’s nothing wrong expecting something from yourself. If you strive, you dive.        

     Expectations come from others may be disappointing.

     Expectations are the root of many sorrows. Surprise is the other side of life.

    If expected thing happens, we'll not wonder. We know in our heart somewhere that expectations are side of surprise; either ecstasy or sorrow.

   Many of us live life of sorrows which we shouldn’t have lived. We never deserved this kind of life. We expected, nothing happened as we thought, we got low.

      Our entire life is surrounded by expectations. Nothing is wrong in that. That’s a human emotion. But we expect second chance in everything like relation, trust, opportunity, and life too. We expect our loved ones will understand us. We take them granted.

     I know it’s hard not to expect. I still have expectations. If it doesn’t happen, then I keep it upto me that I got hurt. I always think that if we lower our expectations from others, then there will be few reasons to disappoint.

    Let others have expectations from you, but don’t you expect. It kills sometimes; from within. Have unexpected expectations. If it happens, then it’s good if not then who cares.
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