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There are many types of worry; which do you have?

     Worry kills us quite everyday. Death finishes our flesh, but worry kills us from within while we’re in the flesh.  If you’re worried about your career, exam, or project, then you’ve academic worries.      If you’re worried about your relationships, then you’ve relation worried.      Worry doesn’t solve the problem. You’ve to solve the problem, so why do you worry? You must be thinking that it’s not easy or it’s not that simple. Almost 90% worries come from us. I don’t mean to insult your emotions, but that’s a fact. You can overcome your worries by doing one step at a time. And you’ll be less worried. It’s not hard at all. Just take any step toward your problem.      Worries stop your mind and brain. It shows us like - there’s nothing you can do but worry. Worries will solve the problem. All doors are closed.     If you think of problem as a challenge, your mindset will change. If you think about you’ll get a reward after completing it, then your all strategy will change.

Don't you think expectations are the root of sorrows?

     Mostly our sorrows come from expectations; especially from others. Where there’s relation, expectations are there. Unexpected expectations may harm you very badly.      We expect something from someone unknowingly that ‘someone’ is unaware of.      There’s nothing wrong expecting something from someone. You should tell ‘someone’ your expectations.      In addition to that, there’s nothing wrong expecting something from yourself. If you strive, you dive.              Expectations come from others may be disappointing.      Expectations are the root of many sorrows. Surprise is the other side of life.     If expected thing happens, we'll not wonder. We know in our heart somewhere that expectations are side of surprise; either ecstasy or sorrow.    Many of us live life of sorrows which we shouldn’t have lived. We never deserved this kind of life. We expected, nothing happened as we thought, we got low.       Our entire life is surrounded by expectations. Nothing

Friendship - feeling of affection

       To be visible with people, we often behave gently first, things get changed. Some stay, some go, some do complicate,  but those stay who is our best.        Some bonds are different than blood those we call our friends. Even from poet to philosopher, everyone has expressed the importance of friendship. Films, television shows, books included this subject many times, and it’s not new to us.        There’s saying – “we can’t choose our relatives, but friends”. They accompany us in our up and downs just like our relatives. We can share any problem with them which we can’t even share with our relatives.        They don’t carry our name but life. Don’t share our blood but bond. They even give us same irritation like our relatives sometimes (being funny). We feel always different with them. Life becomes less complicated or more complicated sometimes.        To ‘subscribe’ this channel of life, you need to be honest, kind, faithful, and trustworthy with your friends. Friends a